Many people who are stuck in a career they no longer love is because they are hesitant to ask for advice. They think this is just a function of being an adult. We have been indoctrinated & conditioned to believe that asking for advice is a sign of incompetence or weakness. In most areas of your life, you can successfully get through the day by doing the things you already know as an adult, or by reading an article or book. Do a search on the Internet & voila` articles & book titles pop onto the page. However, an article or book doesn’t give the unique contingencies or needs that you might face. It is almost a lost skill to reach out & ask for advice. Another reason you might stay stuck is that you are reaching out to people who have an agenda of their own, which is often quite different from yours.Why Is This Even Important?People who feel stuck need a safe, objective, nonjudgmental space where they can talk things through. As a coach, I say I genuinely care about my clients, but I don’t care what they do, which is very different from how a spouse, parent, colleague or friend might approach giving advice. Often, without realizing it, a person in your life has some other agenda for you. So, the first thing I do is create a safe frame of reference for each person based on their needs.
A Business Coach can assist you to decide what business would best fit your skills, talent, & temperament.This moment is the first moment of the rest of your life. (Yes, I have assisted people as young as 5 & those who are 80+)Are you willing to take the steps required to claim your happiness, success, fulfillment, & enlightenment? Will you take advantage of the opportunity to create a new reality for your life?It’s time to SHIFT & get prepared for what’s coming up for your life… so I want you to put your heart & soul into paying close attention to how much mental, emotional & physical pain you are in. Then, step by step you can make the SHIFT gently, easily, & without having to deal with the mental & emotional pain & stress of not knowing what to do, not feeling your best, & all the other OLD WAYS that are holding you back.Remember you might need to ask for assistance.Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/10130409
